Why Fairies Aren't Bad Part 3 or How this all ties together

So why don't I think there are bad Fairies? Well, first is I don't believe that beings and living things are inherently bad or evil. We have learned that most people who we might label as evil have had emotional trauma and/or severe psychological problems. These are pretty uniquely human traits. I do not believe there is a battle of good and evil inside humans or in nature. These concepts are human constructs.

Then we move into the oral tradition. Fairies have existed all over the globe in every culture before written history. All of us have ancestors that connected with Fairies. Then we have the injection of Christianity that tells people that the thing that happened was a trick. These beings are ruled by the devil and here to trick humanity. So the stories that were being told change. The perspective shifts. Much like how the medicine woman that was birthing babies and healing the sick became the witch who was hexing and tricking the tribe, Fairies morph from beings who share space and work with us to beings who have menace in mind. Nature has become something to conquer rather than to live in as part of an ecosystem, and we become more detached from the animals, plants, and beings of nature. This shifts our perspective to how we must defend against nature rather than being at peace with its cycles. Soon, we are no longer a part of nature and see ourselves as separate from it.

I am not saying that a Fairy has never caused harm. Much like all forces of nature—be they earthquakes, wind, or random pests—we can experience harm if we are not careful with our interactions. Not all Fairies are interested in helping Humanity. They have focuses for their energy. Also, accidents happen. I have accidentally smacked a friend when trying to open a stubborn chip bag. My point is that these acts—be it accidental, setting a boundary, or bringing balance to a situation—are not an attack with the intention to cause harm to Humans.

There is also miscommunication, especially back a thousand years ago. Can you imagine trying to talk to someone from 1023? Language is not the same. How they perceived the world is very different. Now imagine you are a magical being from another realm trying to communicate with them to help both realms evolve.

There is also miscommunication, especially back a thousand years ago. Can you imagine trying to talk to someone from 1023? Language is not the same. How they perceived the world is very different. Now imagine you are a magical being from another realm trying to communicate with them to help both realms evolve. The fact that any communication happened is amazing! It is easy to see how a Fairy having an experience with a human could think they were being clear and the human thinking they are speaking in riddles.

Colonization and Capitalism benefits from people being separated from each other and nature, and colors the perspective of our society to see nature as dangerous. All of these things have changed our perspective on Fairies and shifted how we interact with them. Just being aware of how our perspective has been colored and having a willingness to question it starts to open your mind for a different experience. I have a lot more information on how to connect and build a relationship with the Fairies coming. I wanted to start here because this mindset has to be dismantled before you can attempt to build a healthy relationship with them. I hope this has helped shift your perspective some.

Why the Fairies Aren't Bad Part 2 or How the straight white colonial capitalistic perspective has colored how we view nature and history

When you look at a pride of lions, what do you see? Is it an alpha male who has gathered a cluster of female mates to do his bidding? Or is it an empowered female collective sharing talents and skills to thrive while keeping and placating one lazy male to do the one thing they can't? How we observe nature, history, and sciences in general affects how information about it is passed along.

There are two rules of thought that are still prevalent today. One is “I am righteous and God is rewarding me, and therefore, my actions are just.” The other is humans are the superior species. I am a part of this superior evolution and have great intellect, so my perspective is correct. Both are dangerous. The reason Darwin's theory of evolution was chosen by the scientific community as the correct theory (there were others) is because it fit so well with capitalism. Even his theory over the years has been twisted and used to create a perspective that it is natural to be greedy and oppressive. As if those are the traits that would make a human stronger and survive longer in the wild.

Even his theory over the years has been twisted and used to create a perspective that it is natural to be greedy and oppressive. As if those are the traits that would make a human stronger and survive longer in the wild.

Nature is not greedy. It's the reasons prey and predator can be in the same tank at an aquarium. The predator is fed plenty and has no need to hunt. Nature runs on balance and cooperation. There is no battle for land or war of plants. Ferns protect the forest floor and roots. Trees protect the ferns. Birds and squirrels eats the seeds and nuts but also spread the seeds and nuts. The wolf is not bad or evil for eating a bunny, just as the bunny is not bad or evil for eating the plant. The main motivation for nature is to bring things into balance. While a tsunami, earthquake, or other natural disaster is not a good experience, they themselves are not evil, bad, or a form of punishment.

Let's cover this punishment part because I think this is big part of the warped perspective modern humans have. Seeing everything as being done to you as a reward or a punishment creates a perspective where you miss so much about what is happening around you. It creates a lens where you are so focused on yourself and your own actions that you miss connection and observing others. We should strive to be the mouse who investigates the lion roaring to discover how it can help to pull a thorn from its paw. Not our ancestors, who projected their beliefs onto the cultures they found and only saw how they could profit from them.

Colonizers looked at cultures that had maps of the stars, agriculture, and complex social structures and called them savage and misrepresented what it was they did, how their tools were used, and even their intentions behind sacred rites. They took what was helpful and demonized the rest. The spirits/beings they talked to, worshiped, or lived with were labeled demons working for Satan. They would take certain practices and incorporate it into Christian ones to convert them. Those that didn't convert were uncivilized. All of this was to assert themselves as the superior race/group of people and justify their actions of conquering and oppressing.

This is where Fairies get demonized, saying they are tricking humans with ill intent to turn them away from the Christian God. They become anywhere on the spectrum from mischievous to malicious, but any way around it—untrustworthy

This is where Fairies get demonized, saying they are tricking humans with ill intent to turn them away from the Christian God. They become anywhere on the spectrum from mischievous to malicious, but any way around it—untrustworthy. Since a majority of cultures pass on their myths orally, this new perspective crawls into their stories and is passed down. Now changelings want to steal your baby, djinn (genies) are twisting wishes, and brownies or duende steal things from your home instead of protect it.

A more recent version is to demonize the chronically ill, or really all illness and ailments. I totally believe in miracle healings. I have seen it multiple times. I totally believe that our thoughts and beliefs play a part of our health. What I don't agree with is blaming sick people for not being well or feeling superior because of your health. Healthy people want to believe that their diet, exercise, and or energetic habits keep them healthy and safe. All those things help, but you never know what genetics will play into your health. Also, suggesting that all someone needs to do to “fix” themselves is do these simple exercises is rude. What I find interesting is how many of those people still need glasses and dental care and don't see the irony there.

Nature and humanity thrive when cooperation happens. Cultures of the past supported their sick and elderly. We are tribal by nature and all need that support. Again, Colonization and Capitalism benefit from separating people from a tribe and providing some basic necessities for those that work hard enough, instead of pooling resources so everyone can live comfortably. What does this have to do with Fairies? Part 3 will tie all of this together.

Why Fairies Aren't Bad Part 1 Or Why we need to dismantle Jude0-Christian Colonization capitalist mind sets from New Age spirituality

I get asked a lot of questions about fairies, but what I get asked probably the most is: how do I know Fairies aren't dangerous? Or what about bad fairies? I have simple answers for this. Fairies are the essence of the natural world and the natural world isn't good or bad, it just is. Fairies don't experience the same kind of trauma that often creates the “bad” we experience as humans. But to really understand, we have to go deeper into a larger issue.

Most of the western world, and definitely the US, has structures set up by white colonials from a Jude0-Christian perspective. We all have spent our lives marinating in this propaganda, and it makes it hard to see things outside of that perspective. Most things are seen as hierarchies, battles between good and evil, and everything is either a reward or punishment. These are not natural laws or ways of being, yet we often project them onto the natural world and spirituality that is not Judeo-Christian based.

What am I talking about? We are put into classrooms by age, and the older you are, the higher you are in the hierarchy. This helps enforce the authority of the adults in the system. You are graded and often rewarded or punished for your behavior. That's just school. There are many articles out there about the many microaggressions that happen in our society, and that creates another hierarchy and class system. Add land ownership, financial brackets, and capitalism, and you have more class-based systems, beliefs, and warfare. “Work hard and you will be rewarded” or “Sacrifice for others and you will be taken care in kind” are the mottos of our society. All of these support the superiority of Christianity, capitalism, and class systems.

I feel like I need to put a disclaimer in here. I don't dislike Christianity. I don't want people to think I am attacking their religion. My issue is with the way Christianity has been used in the past to set up systems that benefit the few and use the many. This mindset is still prevalent today and completely separated from Christianity in some cases, with science and technology used as justification. Christianity was the label used for actions, and though it influenced, it did not cause them, and I am very aware of that. It is why I am calling out the way New Age spiritualism is being used in similar ways now.

New Age spirituality was created for privileged white women, mostly. It is used to give them a sense of purpose and fulfillment that they feel they are lacking because they live in an oppressive capitalist system that constantly tells them they are not enough and uses them as a resource also. Why wouldn't you look for answers in distant lands and other realms? It's much easier to go to yoga and trust that karma will get the oppressors than dismantle systems of oppression.

New Age spirituality was created for privileged white women, mostly. It is used to give them a sense of purpose and fulfillment that they feel they are lacking because they live in an oppressive capitalist system that constantly tells them they are not enough and uses them as a resource also. Why wouldn't you look for answers in distant lands and other realms? It's much easier to go to yoga and trust that karma will get the oppressors than dismantle systems of oppression.

Like every time I hear someone say “Karma is a Bitch,” I want to shake them and say “No, it's not a reward and punishment system! It isn't a judgment-based belief,” but I just keep my mouth shut. In a world where yoga has become an exercise class at gyms, it’s too long a conversation to have. I don’t have the time to explain that using a spiritual practice as a focus to sell clothes, “equipment,” and namaste stickers is not just cultural appropriation, it's missing the biggest part of the teachings. The journey for peace within to gain peace in the world is replaced with the journey for abs and flexibility as well as the ability to flex about how “enlightened” you are, and that's why you are not angry about the state of the world.

Yoga and karma are just a couple of the many culturally appropriated “spiritual” paths. So many have been broken into bits so people (mainly white) can find the parts they can sell, polish, and/or use to show their superiority over the “lesser vibration people.”

Yoga and karma are just a couple of the many culturally appropriated “spiritual” paths. So many have been broken into bits so people (mainly white) can find the parts they can sell, polish, and/or use to show their superiority over the “lesser vibration people.” It's what our forefathers did when they went out and claimed the land that would work best for them and gave infertile land to the “savages” they didn't kill because our ancestors were “God's chosen people” and knew what was best. We have a history of using the resources of other cultures and feeling entitled to them.

This may sound harsh, and it is. I am not exempt from this. These are my ancestors too. I am also guilty of using the lingo of the New Age movement. This is a “we” problem and looking at the harsh truths and facing them is the only way we start changing and doing better. When I talk about Fairies, I talk about how they are in every culture around the world. So I am stealing from every culture. In some ways, at this point in history, we can't help but steal from other cultures because it's all colliding and connected. I'm not even against anyone doing yoga, even if it’s just for fun and flexibility. At this point, it has a culture of its own. What I am against is the using of these things to imply your superiority to others. I am against the use of these things to excuse you from the participation in our society and the transgressions that happen here. I am against the need to look at everything as punishment and reward and the need to prove you are winning at life. Because what I see is how everyone feels like a failure and judges themselves so harshly for being humans having a human experience. We have demonized the natural world and brainwashed ourselves into thinking that certain ways of being are natural. That is the focus of part 2.

What's up?

What’s up?

So, as you all know,

the chaos ensues and it feels like it keeps having these leaps of intensity. The most recent was when Mercury Retrograde passed the baton to Saturn Retrograde, and it felt like it beat us along the way. Now the darkness of this New Moon is illuminating it all for us to see. I keep having the same conversation over and over again, so I figured this was needed for the general population.

First, let's talk about the bigger picture of what's going on. We have had a paradigm shift. Between COVID, political shifts, and other stuff, the entire planet is in a paradigm shift. This is scary and hard. We all have to be in the new and figure out how we operate in the new. There will be a tendency to cling to the past and want to go back to the known because it was known and that feels easier. It's not and will just slow you down. When massive shifts like this happen, there is chaos. You can't help it. We are in the chaos, as more systems break down to make way for the new, and more ways of being shift, you can't help but be in chaos. It's okay. Our brains interpret this as dangerous, but it is actually the natural process.

Many are

experiencing this as feeling lost or not feeling like themselves, but the truth is

the world has changed; you have changed too, but not as drastically. It's just hard to “feel like yourself” when so many aspects of you, your world, and your relationships have changed. Again, none of this is bad, but it can feel bad. We are being given a gift.

This takes us to the last couple months, but especially June. In May, there were a lot of opportunities to see yourself clearly—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Also to see your relationships clearly. Then when Mercury came out of Retrograde right as Saturn was going Retrograde, a lot of things were upended. Anything that feels like it was taken from you, lost, or no longer working was something stopping you from your highest and best path. You were shown the places apathy had crept in, where you still played small to make others comfortable, and where you were distracting yourself from your true purpose.

It may not be clear

yet what the new path or purpose is.

You might also know your path or purpose but feel like you can't get there yet. This is all again part of the natural process, and I will talk about that in one moment. First, I need to address what many empaths are experiencing right now. Part of the confusion is the fact that empaths are being bombarded right now. You are probably feeling exhausted from either picking up everyone's crap or from combating the constant onslaught of energy being thrown your way. You need to make sure you are clearing, grounding, and shielding every day!

Okay, now for where we are headed. As we follow the energy and how I see it unfolding, we are in the creating space for the new phase. So there may not be a lot of clarity about where you are going yet, so you are only feeling the loss. You may have an idea about where you are going but it feels so weird and so far away that it feels out of reach. Just do the small steps now. Clear the space, set the plans in motion, let go of the past. All of this will help you down the road.

In July, people are going to feel stuck, trapped, or like they can't get anything moving. At least the first half, but maybe the whole month. You might also have some false start experiences. Please don't let any of this discourage you. You are still making progress. This stall is for us to get better clarity and dig deeper. Do not take this as a reason to stop moving forward.

Fall is when we get some relief. The energy lightens, things start progressing. This will be different times for different people. For some, it starts as early as late August. For some, it starts in September. Some have to wait till October. Any way around it, you will have a period of relief. November, however, brings with it some more intensity that takes till December to start dissipating.

To sum up, the road will continue to be bumpy, but the trick is to shift your perspective about it. People keep thinking “I just get through this thing, or month, and then things will be easy.” Just stop that. Shift your expectation to things don't need to be perfect or smooth to still feel supportive and okay. The best way forward is to be as honest with yourself as you can be. Look at those things you have been running from. Look at the parts you feel powerless in. Look for the truth of who you are and how to move forward in that. That's where you find your freedom and your power, but most of all your peace.

Lost Hope?

The heaviness of everything hit me last night. I had been getting some cryptic messages and decided to sit down with my husband and pull some tarot cards. We were talking and discussing what was coming up. Then I suddenly said, “It just feels like I don't have any hope anymore. It's something I have been struggling with for the last 3 years.” The flood gates opened and I sobbed. We talked about the numerous disappointments, painful experiences, and upheavals over the last 8 years. We talked about how I don't know how to prepare my kids for their future or even what future I am heading towards. You see, hope for me had been that life was going to keep getting better. The future was better, but I hadn't felt that in a long time. This led to a restless night and lots of self-energy work, but can be distilled down to a conversation I had with The Fairies.

“I've lost hope,” I said.

“What is hope?” they asked.
“It's heading towards a better life, future, or something better,” I replied.

“Oh, then it is good you lost that. That is not hope. That keeps you from being fully in the present and appreciating what you are experiencing. Hope is the light in you. It can't be lost. If you put a light in a box, you may not see it anymore, but it's still shining. You just have to remove the box to see it again.”

“What if the present is too painful to experience? What if the light brings no comfort? What if I am too disappointed by life to feel hopeful?”

“Disappointment is NOT the opposite of hope. Much like fear and courage are not opposites. When you move forward in the face of fear, that is courage. When you move forward in the face of disappointment, that is hope. You say you don't have hope, but you still move forward every day in the face of pain, disappointment, and fear. You get up and you make magic every day.”

“It feels pointless.”

“It feels pointless because you are placing big expectations on how it should look or feel or be. You are still looking for punishment and reward instead of accepting and appreciating the being of now.”

“So it is pointless,” I say with a smirk.

“It's like your favorite quote: You can either see life as nothing is a miracle or everything is.”

When I finally woke up this morning, I didn't touch my phone. I took a long hot shower using tons of pampering products. I wanted to scrub the old off me and soothe my soul with many moisturizers. I made myself yummy food and took time to just be. When I finally did get on Facebook, my memories showed my post from a year ago. It was talking about how acceptance is the way forward (a favorite Fairy quote of mine) and how we needed to accept our current reality and figure out how to move forward in acceptance. So the spiral of my journey brings me back to the same spot with a different view.

It's June already?!

Well May is what I would call, sorry for the language, a clusterfuck! There was a lunar eclipse and all kinds of astrological things in play as well as the shift of the pandemic as things are opening up in most places. We are still in this chaotic energy and the way the stars and planets are aligning, along with a Mercury retrograde, there is still more truth to be revealed. I want to remind you that all universal energies, like astrology, does not dictate our path but is an energy we must be aware of on our path. Ignoring universal energies can create resistance or pit falls. Focusing on it to the point it stops you is also not helpful. These are the energies we dance with. The more you are aware of them and learn how to dance with them rather than resist or fight them, the better experience you will have. This is the base of co-creation. Working with and coordinating energies to your best experience.

I bring this all up because the chaos you are experiencing is the turning of the soil. The Universe is ripe for planting right now. Your thoughts and words, that are always powerful, have extra power right now. Instead of trying to get the universal waiter's attention in a crowded restaurant, they are at your table with rapt attention. Place your order clearly. This means being clear in the feeling within yourself. Your old desires and goals may no longer be what your heart calls for—that's okay. Pull a Roxette and listen to your heart. This time will also bring clarity for what you really want. Stay open to signs and inspiration because this time will also be full of them. The Universe is talking loudly. It will continue to talk louder and louder. By the time we reach Samhain in October, you will feel like all the realms are open to you, and they kind of will be.

Here is what the Fairies have to say:

Stop being distracted by the chaos of others. There is a lot happening in the Human world right now and it is easy to focus on fear, pain, chaos, and strife. You don't need to ignore it, but don't let it pull your focus. The Universe benefits from your magic. Your focus needs to be on how to create more of your magic in the world. That benefits you and everyone else. You might have lots of ways you create magic. That's fine. Do as many as you can. It could be supporting other humans. It could be spreading joy and love to others. It could be producing beautiful art. Whatever your magic, make it a priority. Weave it in to your day to day. Sprinkle it on your chores and errands. There are always ways to be engaging with magic. You don't need a special place, the right time, the perfect financial situation, or the perfect person in your life to create your magic. You are magic. You just need to express yourself from your heart's space. Open to all the ways the Universe is calling for your magic right now.

April 2021 Fairy Message

I actually feel like the Fairies are so clear this month, I don't want to muddy the words. I will say I invite you to treat yourself and others with compassion and grace this month. Here is what the Fairies have to say:

April starts off slippery. It may feel like you can't find the traction to get moving on some things and other things are running away from you. What do these have in common? Lack of control. Did 2020 not teach you anything? Your illusion of control will not help you anymore. You are stepping into unknown territory and unknown ways of being. You cannot control what you do not understand. Elizabeth is not liking all our double negatives but that is the time you are in. It is time to dance through the Paradox.

When you feel like giving up, you will find your energy to push forward. When it seems like letting go is the only way forward, you will find everything and everyone running back to you. You can find the peace you are looking for in the middle of the chaos. The trick is not controlling outside yourself but controlling within. Stop running from the feelings and face them head on. Express yourself. Let it out.

Your world does not make sense but the truth is, it never has. The rose-colored glasses society was looking through have been ripped off. It is like the people of Oz in your books. The Wizard was always just a man behind a curtain. The Emerald City was always just green glasses. They just had to become aware of truth. The truth can feel crazy. The truth can be hard to look at. The truth can still be seen differently through different eyes. That's okay. What is needed is compassion and grace.

Humanity is going to have some beautiful experiences and much-needed change this year. You will start to see the little buds and sprouts of this by the end of April. Remember, you may not know what the flower will bloom into until you watch it unfold.

-The Fairies

Equinox Message March 2021

Happy Spring Equinox (or Fall if you live in the Southern Hemisphere)! It's another one of those shifting times. Rebirth seems to be the theme of 2021. Spring is always a time of rebirth and seems to be amplified by the 2021 energy. We cultivated a new way of being and new versions of ourselves all through 2020. I would like to invite you to claim this new you. Let go of doubts, relationships, and ways of being that don't support who you are now. Give yourself space to grieve these losses because there will be grief, but the loss creates space for the new and better. Opportunities are appearing for people to claim the new way of being. Those who do not understand or “get” you are just not part of your tribe for this part of your path. It doesn't make them wrong or mean you have to judge their new way of being. It just means you need to let go and stop trying to drag others along your path.

I kept struggling to write this blog and I realized it was because the Fairies had a message they wanted out now that couldn't wait for April. So here is what The Fairies have to say:

The energy of 2020 is being wrapped up and completed. You may have new goals and new ways of being in the world. This can feel like walking in new shoes that are not broken in. Even though they feel good, they may not feel right yet. It can be uncomfortable and rub your edges. You will find your way. It is time to be comfortable with the uncomfortable as you let it show you the truth. What feels uncomfortable are the places you are still holding on to the past and the old way of being.

There is a push for many healers and lightworkers to speak their truth and claim their space. This means being comfortable with making others uncomfortable. You do not need to be mean or attack others, but you do need to speak your truth and not shrink your light to make others comfortable. Claim who you are now. This also means embracing your shadow. Love your wounded self. Love the parts of yourself that feel unlovable. Please know that when you acknowledge these parts and work with them, it lessens the power they have on your unconscious mind. It gives you space to act from a place of peace rather than hurt.

When events or people make you angry, reflect. Where is the anger coming from? If you are feeling sad or lost, what is driving these feelings? These feelings aren't wrong but ways for you to communicate to yourself where you need to heal still. Keep healing and keep shining. You will find your feet again on your turn on your path.

-The Fairies

March 2021 Fairies Message

March is just Marching along! I'm sorry this is late. February brought snow storms, power outages, and the fifth death in the family. So it goes. But I finally got myself to sit down and write a blog. As we hit a one-year anniversary of lock down here in WA state, it amazes me how much has changed—in the world, my life, and in me. We have all been through a transformative rebirth process, and it is important to be compassionate with each other and ourselves. I asked the Fairies for their message in this powerful month as we head to St. Patrick's Day, Spring Equinox (or Fall depending on where you are at), and Easter. I hope their words give you the ray of hope you need to keep moving forward into a new way of being. Here is what the Fairies had to say:

This changing of the season will not be all rainbows and sunshine, but it will not be trudging forward either. Your world and society have been through a shift in consciousness. You will start to see the conflict in moving forward and trying to go back to the way it was. You cannot go back but many will try. Many people will try to act like the old systems did not break down and with a little elbow grease they can get back up and running. They cannot. This will lead to more struggle and chaos. The relationships, way of operating, and societal systems that don't work will still not work. Before, many could act like they didn't notice. Keep a level of denial. That is no longer possible.

This is not just on the world stage but your inner world too. You will not be able to go back to the way you were before. You have changed, and this can be scary. You don't even think like the person you were a year ago. Old relationships, situations, jobs, dreams, and goals that you use to have just don't fit anymore. There is nothing wrong with letting go and choosing differently now. Also, know that others have changed drastically. This could mean you are more compatible now. It could mean you are less. It doesn't mean one is wrong or right, just different. Let yourself experience them as they are now. The new them.

Even though it all feels new, and that can feel both exciting and scary, move forward with intention. What world do you want to create? What do you want your life to look like? Turn inward and ask what you truly want now. Where does your fulfillment live? Answering these questions moves you forward to your next steps.

- The Fairies

The February Fairy Message

The month of love that is both loved and hated. Romantic love is great, but there are so many love relationships to celebrate and explore. You have love for your family and friends, but most importantly yourself! I often talk about self-love in February because I think it is so crucial to a spiritual path. So I want to talk a minute about motivation before I get to the Fairy Message.

I invite you to explore the why behind your current self-help journey. Do you feel like you are broken or need to be fixed? There is no such thing as a perfect person. If you have faults, then you are human. Are you trying to better yourself to prove something to other people? I know people who get physically fit to spite their ex. They achieve something to prove to their parents they were right. They want to show their old classmates that they are a big shot now. Chasing the approval of those who have already rejected you will never bring you peace. There is a lot of talk about chasing status or money being an empty path, which it can be, but I think this is worse. In all situations, whether you are chasing money or want to show your ex your hot bod, you are giving your power away. You are saying I am not enough without this.

So instead, pick your motivation. Are you shifting your diet or exercising for other people's opinions or so you can feel good in your body? Focus on what you want to do with your body and why you want that strength. For money, focus on why you want it. If you are trying to fill a hole or feel powerful, then shift your perspective. Instead, focus on all the good you can do with that money. See yourself as part of the flow of money, knowing it comes and goes easily. Instead of focusing on status, focus on building relationships with people you know and those you meet. Be of service! I hope this helps shifts your perspective and moves you in the direction of loving yourself more! Here is the Fairy’s Message:

We want to talk about the paradox of self-love and success. Elizabeth talked about wanting to prove to others and that being motivation, but we want to address the push to that pull—hiding. Many of you push to be seen and then hide when you get attention. You start building big and then shrink when others become uncomfortable. It is the other part of needing approval. You try to make others comfortable, hoping that will help your chances of approval. This is giving your power away. It is time to shine and be who you authentically are without fear of being alone. Love yourself enough to want to be alone.

Where your focus and energy go, you create. So you don't want to create a fake you with fake relationships and fake ways of being. You will never feel fulfilled or be at peace if you spend your energy trying to control or manipulate your experience. Allow yourself to be you and others to be themselves. Those that fall away are just not your people. The ones you make uncomfortable or reject you are not your tribe. Let them go. Make space for your people. They will come as soon as you start being yourself.

Love is not about making the other person anything. Love is about celebrating who you are, who they are, and who you are together. Loving yourself requires you accepting yourself and celebrating who you are in this moment. Make time this month to celebrate you.

The Fairies